Insane Indulgences ?

Something which bothers me is why do educated, well informed people spend like crazy on their weddings -- Why cant we start a culture of doing some thing good on the wedding day, like the couple planting a tree ?  Feeding some poor people on the wedding day. I don't say that people should not celebrate and rejoice, but dont over-splurge --save for the future --its not a day to make a point to the society --there is an entire life ahead of you. Anyways at the end of the wedding, the guests end up complaining --why please such people ? Help some poor people and you may not receive gifts but genuine heart felt wishes from them!

Is it really so difficult to change our mindset to do this ?




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