A strange phase

At crossroads.
Unable to decide what next.
The best part of getting married is I believe is being able to offload a lot of decisions to your spouse and steer away from them -financial,organizational.Life should be simpler with responsibilities divided.When you have a very nice spouse who says --Whatever you say --well the onus is on you to make some decisions ,and there life gets tricky .Do you just take the plunge and leave it to time or continue to live in the comfort zone.Just thinking.

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Ravikiran Belkud said…
Ya Daksh,
At many time being a follower is much easier, but then you get more choices if you have to decide. But then you try to keep everyone's likes/dislikes in mind while deciding,and this is where the game becomes difficult. In most cases, I feel it is better to do whatever seems more logical, but if all the options are equally logical, then better to do whichever is most convenient....If even then it is difficult to decide then - the our good old lottery system is best "Akkad bakkand bambe bo, assi nabbe pure sau..... :)
-Ravikiran
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